Category: Relationships

One of my best friends has been unhealthily obsessed with the same guy for almost four years (we’re now seniors in college).

The universe is there, ready, waiting to unfold for all of us. The key is being both perceptive and receptive to the suggestions that come forth. In my own life, I know that this means I need to be committed to my daily practice – only through that commitment can I be open to the true freedom available. I’ve learned to stop blocking myself with unnecessary resentment or worry, and to trust that life is unfolding in the way it should, in its own glorious and perfect manner. This is the gift you give yourself when you choose to make the commitment to connecting with the real inner you.

Attachments. Think you don’t have many? Think you travel light, psychologically speaking? We all have attachments, more than we’d care to admit. But what if you let them all go?

There’s a big difference between chemistry and compatibility, but sometimes when you’re in the throes of enjoying the chemistry, it’s difficult to see whether the compatibility is there or not, or to convince yourself it’s there when it really isn’t. In the past, I’ve certainly been guilty myself of not seeing the difference, and sometimes that has led to disaster.